Gifts for the Bride and Groom
Gifts for the bride and groom are optional, although most guests attempt to give at least a token gift of their best wishes, as the saying goes it’s the thought that counts. Traditionally the gifts for the bride and groom are products and objects that are used to make the transition into shared living easier, they can be anything from the useful (if obvious) toaster or electric knife (we ended up with three of these) to the more expensive gifts such as a honeymoon, car or even a home.
Wedding gifts will form an inevitable part of the wedding day celebrations, so why not spend a little time picking an appropriate or unique gift. A wedding is usually an enjoyable time for all involved, including the guests, so a carefully chosen wedding gift will help the new couple remember their special day, and let them start their life as a married couple with the things they need.
Etiquette rules prohibit the bride and groom from soliciting gifts, which would preclude them listing their place of registry, for example, in their wedding invitations. However the couple will often register for gifts at a favourite store well in advance of their wedding. Some brides and grooms and families feel that, for the expense and effort they put into showing their guests a good time and to wine and dine them, the guests should reciprocate by providing nice gifts. Taking this a step further, some couples register with services that enable money gifts intended to fund items such as a honeymoon, home purchase or college fund.